ON THIS MATTER: MAKE YOUR DECISIONS NOW! BY ADEDIRE ADEKANBI


ON THIS MATTER: MAKE YOUR DECISIONS NOW! 
BY ADEDIRE ADEKANBI

Oluwakemi Arokoyo shared something on Christian Women Matters page that says, “be faithful to your husband even before you meet him”. That sounds ridiculous ba? Well, its deep.

There are decisions that are best taken now, not later. You don’t learn how to fight while on the battle field, neither do you learn the modus operandi of how to use a gun on the battle field, unless you want your carcass to be given to birds of the air.

There are decisions that are best taken now that you are single, not after marriage. One of such decisions is deciding not to be a liability to your future husband, either you know him yet or not.

For some, their husband will be like, thank God for this beautiful woman, she is a blessing. While for some, their husband will be like, this woman is a burden, God please help her.

You have to determine where you are or where you want to be now, so that you won’t be another problem your husband is trying to pull along, while solving other people’s problem, so that your husband will not finish a long hour of counseling and come only to spend more hours on you, on things you ought to have known and master by reason of use.

This is telling us to pay attention to growth and development, not only outwardly, inwardly also. You can be beautiful facially and dirty internally. Talking about outward dirtiness, a dirty single lady will make a dirty married woman. 

No married woman has a tenable excuse to keep a dirty environment. Its all about your mind set, change your mind set and in turn change your life. For dirtiness is not a virtue, in fact, you are sinning by being dirty, for cleanliness is next to Godliness. If you are dirty, then you are not Godly.

Watch out for every bad character that will dent your marriage and make your home a battle field instead of a heaven on earth.

Make your decisions now!

#ProvokegreatnessoutofusohGod
Adedire Adegoke is an intense lover of God with a divine calling to provoke greatness out of young people to the glory of God. She's a regular speaker in Sisters' conferences and Female Special Retreats. She's a coach to young people on marriage and relationship, any time out with a young lady is golden to her. She is a practising Nursing Officer, a passionate Christian writer, Creative Video Strategist and a Blogger whose incesants writings have been changing lives of young men and women to the glory of God. Add-on to her Profession as a Nurse and Midwife, she's a great Baker with proven track records. She conveniently bakes Wedding, Birthday, Graduation and other cakes that would taste good and rich at anytime and day. Beyond being a Midwife, she's a goodwife to her husband, Tosin Adegoke. They are dedicatedly involved in the kingdom business and they are reaching thousands of youths through their monthly meetings 'School of the Spirit',- a platform raised to teach and raise spiritually inclined men and women for the fulfillment of their eternal destiny.

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